Unpledged

“Deepening intimacy without defining a level of commitment is like going on a mountain climbing with a friend who isn’t sure if he wants the responsibility of holding your rope. “ – Joshua Harris

Many say love is a wonderful thing, that it always makes your world painted red. But for some unfortunate hearts, those who didn’t know where to stand in an unknown relationship, love is walking on a bridge wandering how it unites the land between water and how strong it was not to collapse if heavy vehicles passes by. It does makes us satisfied, happy and very affectionate but beyond these unknown relationship makes us wonder how long we could stand and wait. It could be very difficult waiting for the right time even though there is no assurance of the right time. So hard. So painful. So being naïve.

But no wonder, deepening intimacy is a great feeling especially when you know that there’s something in return. Something that is so hopeful he/she loves you back. But in turn, you really felt that it really has something yet after all that has been shown and said, something that he/she lets you feel, then makes you realized that all is a lie. That is just a way of life, making lies and earning fake feelings.

There’s still time to be spent and things that would possibly happen along the way. Maybe the journey would make him strong enough to hold my rope or let my rope loose from his hands.